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No More Moments of Silence

October 11, 2012

Tags: St. John's Keynote, gender, women's rights, rape

On October 4, I gave the keynote address at St. John’s University in Queens, New York, for “Take Back the Night,” an international yearly march that began in the 1970s to protest violence against women. This is a version of that address.

Good evening. I’m honored to speak with you about violence. And the thing I want to tell you most is (more…)

The Politics of GOLD

July 12, 2012

Tags: Chris Cleave, gender, Gold

A few months ago I had the pleasure of reading an advance copy of Chris Cleave's new novel Gold. Cleave is the author of two other books that I greatly admire, Little Bee and Incendiary, brilliant, compassionate, and politically significant novels that have become best sellers. It seems in many ways Cleave has achieved the impossible, making (more…)

Thanks LGBT community, We Couldn't do it Without You

March 12, 2012

Tags: LGBT, gender, politics, justice

The growing acceptance of gay marriage, the increasing number of LGBT people who are no longer forced to live closeted lives, and the growing ubiquity of gay and trans culture is all good news. Not just because diversity strengthens cultures, but because these things have made a serious impact on flawed and biased thinking about gender. You know the kind; the god awful (more…)

Not Oprah's Book Club

May 3, 2011

Tags: Chloe Angyal, Feministing, readings, So Much Pretty, gender

Last week I had the pleasure of talking with Feministing's brilliant blogger Chloe Angyal at Greenlight Bookstore in Brooklyn. To read all of Chloe's piece on the evening you can click on the photo.


"On Wednesday night, I was lucky enough to meet Hoffman and to interview her before a small crowd at Brookyln’s Greenlight Bookstore. We talked about a number of themes in the book, including the way that women sometimes collude in rape culture by engaging in victim-blaming..."

Cara Hoffman Hates Men

April 14, 2011

Tags: Cara Hoffman, gender, cara hoffman naked, cara hoffman hates men, CSI

Thanks to Google Analytics I can see the terms people are using to search online for me and my work.
The vast majority are, as you would expect, my name and the title So Much Pretty.

But there are other terms; “Cara Hoffman naked” and “Cara Hoffman nude” and also “Cara Hoffman hates men.” (more…)

Now is the Time

March 16, 2011

Tags: violence against women, gender, justice, LES Girls Club

The following piece is from a talk I gave yesterday at the Lower East Side Girls Club.

Recent reporting in The New York Times about the brutally violent sexual assault of an eleven-year old child brings many issues to light. And while some have cried bias, charging that the Times has “blamed the victim” in their coverage, there is a much bigger issue at work. (more…)

The Fates Will Find Their Way; an Interview with Hannah Pittard

March 12, 2011

Tags: Hannah Pittard, the fates will find their way, gender, writing

Hannah Pittard’s ingenious The Fates Will Find Their Way is a beautifully written story about the relentlessly solipsistic and obsessive power of male fantasy even when faced with very sad and personal realities.

Missing Nora Lindell will never be found. And her story becomes instead fodder for obsessive speculation by (more…)

The Informationist; an Interview with Taylor Stevens

March 8, 2011

Tags: Taylor Stevens, The Informationist, gender, thrillers, vanessa munroe

Taylor Stevens’ The Informationist is an unprecedented work in the action thriller genre.
The novel’s protagonist Vanessa Michael Munroe, whose height and androgynous beauty makes it possible for her to pass as a man when necessary is the kind of hero we’ve not seen before. Possibly ever.

While Munroe has (more…)

Know Your Heroes: Simone Debeauvoir

March 5, 2011

Tags: Simone DeBeauvoir, gender, existentialism, women's rights

"Society, being codified by man, decrees that woman is inferior; she can do away with this inferiority only by destroying the male's superiority."
- Simone DeBeauvoir


From our friends at the existential primer:
Simone de Beauvoir was one of the most important cultural historians of the twentieth century. She was also (more…)

Kicking off Women's History Month with Emma

February 28, 2011

Tags: Emma Goldman, anarchism, women's rights, gender, equality, politics

Emma Goldman (1869–1940) stands as a major figure in the history of American radicalism and feminism. An influential and well-known anarchist of her day, Goldman was an early advocate of free speech, birth control, women's equality and independence, and union (more…)

Going to Where the Silences Are; an Interview with Jennifer Block

February 25, 2011

Tags: Jennifer Block, gender, childbirth, choice, abortion, planned parenthood

The U.S. House of Representatives voted recently to withhold all federal funding from Planned Parenthood for birth control, cancer screenings, HIV testing, and other urgent care the organization provides for women. This month alone has seen an incredible backlash against women in this country; the attempt in congress to redefine (more…)

Our Stories, Ourselves; an Interview with Alexis Santi

February 24, 2011

Tags: Alexis Santi, literature, Vida study, gender, diversity, media

The recently released Vida report, tallying the disparity between men and women being published today is a sobering reminder of how much work we have ahead of us.

Today I had a chat with Alexis Santi, founder of Our Stories Literary Journal on the subject. Santi earned his MFA from George Mason (more…)

Freedom and the English Language

February 21, 2011

Tags: George Orwell, language, politics, gender, violence, bobby franklin, abortion bill, chris smith

Georgia State Rep. Bobby Franklin has proposed a bill that would take the word “victim” out of cases involving rape, stalking, domestic violence and obscene telephone contact with a child, and replace it with the word “accuser.”

Franklin’s bill comes on the heels of an attempt to redefine the word rape itself in (more…)

The Second Assault on Lara Logan

February 16, 2011

Tags: Lara Logan, Nir Rosen, violence, gender

The brutal sexual assault of CBS news chief foreign correspondent Lara Logan, while she was covering a celebration following the revolution in Egypt, has not provided us with some shocking revelation. Sexual violence and violence against women, particularly in the workplace or at home are common occurrences, not just in the Arab world but worldwide. (more…)

DAY OF HONEY an Interview with Annia Ciezadlo

February 7, 2011

Tags: Annia Ciezadlo, literature, gender, war, food

I first met Annia Ciezadlo in the 90s when we were working for a small newspaper in western New York. She was an overwhelmingly articulate young woman; a brilliant, deeply funny, dumpster-diving DIYer who taught me how to can peppers and make jam, (more…)

Why We Read, an Interview with Philipp Meyer

February 1, 2011

Tags: Philipp Meyer, literature, family, gender, postmodernism, work, writing

When I first read Philipp Meyer’s American Rust I was struck by the poetry of it and exhilarated by the issues the author brought to light. It was the first novel I’d read by a contemporary that excited my sensibilities for language as well as meaning. It’s a courageous and deeply sensitive piece of fiction and to me it heralded (more…)

Bad advice from Kurt Vonnegut

January 23, 2011

Tags: family, gender, parenting, Kurt Vonnegut, Joan Didion, persona, writing

Readers of this blog (and friends) will know my mother as the person whose ideas about parenting included reading booze-drenched modernist classics to me when I was eleven. So, it will not come as a surprise to anyone that when I was a few years older than that, she dropped me off at a Kurt Vonnegut reading while she went to a lecture in another part of town. (more…)

Julian Assange: Too busy with “serious” work to answer questions about possible sexual assault

December 23, 2010

Tags: Anna Sussman, Julian Assange, gender, media, persona, violence

The following piece on Wikileaks founder Julian Assange is a guest blog by Anna Louie Sussman. Sussman is a print journalist whose work has been published in the New York Times, the Washington Post, the Wall Street Journal, the Nation, and other magazines. She writes about social justice and women's issues, and ice cream.

The fierce megalomania that Julian Assange unleashed in Monday’s twenty-five-minute-long interview with the BBC’s John Humphrys presumably surprised no one. He’s been (more…)

Jon Frankel on Writing Novels in an Hour and a Half a Day

December 13, 2010

Tags: Jon Frankel, writing, family, bartending, class issues, gender, parenting


When I lived in Ithaca, NY, I became friends with a writer named Jon Frankel. A deeply, darkly funny guy who equally loved Phillip K. Dick and John Donne. Neither of us had attended college and we were dedicated to learning and reading outside of the institution. Like me he was trying to be (more…)

A Funeral in Clay, NY

November 29, 2010

Tags: Jenni Lyn Watson, gender, violence, media, Joan Didion

A funeral will be held Wednesday for Jenni Lyn Watson, a resident of Clay, NY who disappeared November 19 and whose body was found a week later, dumped behind a storage shed four miles from her house. Her ex-boyfriend is being charged with murder. (more…)

Oh, I Would Not Give You False Hope...

October 12, 2010

Tags: parenting, Chris Cleave, ethics, mommy blogging, childhood, gender, media

I get asked a lot of parenting questions these days and questions about being a single mother. I think this is partly because many of my friends and peers are having their first kids or raising toddlers, while my son is nearly grown—a brainy, wiseass musician entering college who is sweet enough to send me things like youtube videos of Mr. T singing “I pity the fool who don’t love his mother.” (more…)

The Beginning of Men

October 6, 2010

Tags: violence, media, gender

The recent trend of declaring the “end of masculinity” is gaining much purchase recently, such as in the piece that ran September 20 in Newsweek Magazine asking us if it was time for a “new macho” and Hanna Rosin’s well researched article “The End of Men” which ran in the July/ (more…)

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